Yesterday, you asked someone if you could hold their hand, and they said yes. You are seeing the same person today for dinner. What level of consent do you have with this person?

I should ask to hold this person's hand each time

I should ask if it is OK to hold their hand when we hang out going forward

What is required of event hosts at Kink Center?

Event hosts are responsible for understanding and enforcing venue rules, coordinating with their assigned Event Coordinator, providing their own setup labor, managing their attendees, and ensuring the space is left clean after the event.

Is Kink Center staff present during events?

Yes. A Kink Center staff member is required to be present at all events and is scheduled in coordination with the Event Host.

Can event hosts set their own rules?

Yes. Hosts may set rules that are equal to or more strict than Kink Center's baseline rules, but they may not allow activities that are prohibited by the venue.

Are event attendee waivers required?

Yes. All attendees must sign a standardized Event Attendee Waiver that explains what they may experience, clarifies consent and risk, and confirms the event is not adult entertainment. Hosts may use their own waiver if it includes required elements and names Kink Center.

What setup and logistics support does Kink Center provide?

Kink Center coordinates scheduling and buffers events when possible, but hosts are responsible for setup, teardown, and solving logistical needs. Door check-in support is typically provided.

What furniture and equipment are available at the venue?

The venue provides chairs, tables, an A-frame, massage table, twin bed for aftercare, puzzle mats, and a wrestling mat. All provided furniture must be cleaned and returned in good condition after the event.

What areas are considered common areas at Kink Center?

Common areas include bathrooms, walkways, and the kitchen. Disruptive play, full scenes, and sexual activity are not allowed in these spaces.

What cleaning and safety supplies are provided?

The venue provides cleaning supplies, basic medical supplies, HVAC, fire extinguishers, and sanitizing products. Hosts are responsible for maintaining cleanliness during and after events.

What are the rules around food and drinks?

Food and drinks must stay in the kitchen. Exceptions may be made for sealed water bottles or accessibility-related needs. Alcohol is only allowed with a valid banquet permit and strict compliance with venue rules.

Are weapons allowed at Kink Center events?

No. Weapons or items resembling weapons result in an immediate venue ban. Play knives may only be visible during a scene and must be put away immediately afterward.

How does Kink Center regulate play activities?

Hosts must clearly define allowed and prohibited play types before the event. Attendees must be informed in advance, and play rules cannot be changed on the day of the event without notice.

What restrictions exist around high-risk play?

Certain activities such as fire play, open flames, non-self-releasing breath play, scat, watersports, waterboarding, and unsafe suspension practices are prohibited or strictly limited.

Is blood play allowed at Kink Center?

Blood play is allowed under controlled conditions with barriers and reasonable precautions. Blood should not become airborne, and excessive bleeding is not permitted.

What are the rules regarding rope and suspension?

Neck rope attached to structures is prohibited. Suspension hardware must be professionally rated, and participants must check in with Hosts or Monitors before engaging in suspension.

How are complaints or consent concerns handled?

Event Hosts are responsible for addressing complaints and consent concerns, with support from Kink Center staff as needed. All reported consent issues must be shared with the venue.

Does Kink Center maintain a banlist?

Yes. Individuals on Kink Center banlist are not permitted in the venue. Hosts may maintain their own banlists but must clearly communicate who issued the ban.

How are emergencies handled at events?

Kink Center staff and Event Hosts coordinate emergency response, including evacuation, crowd control, and communication with first responders. Accessibility needs are prioritized during evacuations.

What are hosts responsible for after an event ends?

Hosts must clean all areas used, remove food and alcohol, manage lost and found items, and leave the venue in good condition. Trash is handled by staff, but hosts are expected to leave the space better than they found it.

Hosts Guide

Host Rules

Event Hosts are expected to follow these rules when hosting events at Kink Center.

Host Responsibilities

• Enforce Kink Center rules and your own house rules
• Provide all setup and teardown labor
• Manage attendee conduct and safety
• Clean all used areas after the event
• Coordinate with assigned Event Coordinator/Staff

Waivers & Documentation

• All attendees must sign Event Attendee Waiver
• Waiver must explain consent, risks, and non-entertainment nature
• May use custom waiver if it includes required elements
• Must name Kink Center on waiver

Strictly Prohibited Activities

• Fire play & open flames (not permitted)
• Neck rope attached to structures (prohibited)
• Non-self-releasing breath play (prohibited)
• Scat and watersports play
• Unsafe suspension practices

Weapons & Safety

• Weapons prohibited (immediate venue ban)
• Play knives only visible during scenes
• No weapon-like items allowed
• No aerial hazards or projectiles

Blood Play Rules

• Allowed under controlled conditions
• Must use barriers and precautions
• Blood must not become airborne
• Excessive bleeding is not permitted

Suspension & Rigging

• Hardware must be professionally rated
• Participants must check in before suspension
• Neck rope to structures is prohibited
• Hosts must monitor suspension play

Food, Drinks & Alcohol

• Food and drinks stay in kitchen only
• Exception: sealed water bottles, accessibility needs
• Alcohol requires valid banquet permit
• Host controls alcohol distribution

Common Areas

• Bathrooms, kitchen, walkways are off-limits for scenes
• No disruptive play in common areas
• No sexual activity in common areas
• Keep common areas clean and accessible

Play Rules Enforcement

• Clearly define allowed and prohibited activities
• Communicate rules before the event
• Rules cannot change on day of event
• Enforce consistently throughout event

Consent & Complaints

• Address all complaints immediately
• Handle consent concerns with event staff support
• Report all consent issues to Kink Center
• Maintain confidentiality when appropriate

Post-Event Duties

• Clean all used areas thoroughly
• Remove all food and alcohol
• Manage lost and found items
• Return furniture to original condition

Full Host Guide Document

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