
Self Defense Lecture - Awareness & TacticsMon, Aug 17th · 6:00 PMThese classes are hosted on multiple dates but they are not continuations of the previous. You will receive all of the information in each individual class. You are welcome to attend as many as you like!
First class from 6-7pm is lecture style:
Come sit and learn in our lecture about how to develop and use awareness in everyday life! Learn how to stay present and aware in your surroundings, to keep yourself safe in urban life!
Second class from 7:30-8:30 involves physical movement:
Come be active in our self defense workshop! In this workshop, we'll go over how to keep your body in good condition while living a busy life, as well as basic self-defense for keeping yourself safe in emergency situations. Note: Please be dressed comfortably to stretch and exercise.
About the educator: Lionel Abdool (he/him) has been part of the Seattle kink community since 2018. He has worked on the education committees of leather orgs, like Seattle Leather Service Corps, to help organize and provide kink education to the community, as well as hosting private events in the Seattle area and kink education events at conventions. He is a certified 2nd Dan in Taekwondo and Hapkido and has been a martial arts instructor for 10 years working with people ages 3 to 60. Additionally he is a Certified Personal Trainer, self defense instructor, and group fitness instructor
Paid Event

Self Defense Class - Stretching & SituationsMon, Aug 17th · 7:30 PMThese classes are hosted on multiple dates but they are not continuations of the previous. You will receive all of the information in each individual class. You are welcome to attend as many as you like!
First class from 6-7pm is lecture style:
Come sit and learn in our lecture about how to develop and use awareness in everyday life! Learn how to stay present and aware in your surroundings, to keep yourself safe in urban life!
Second class from 7:30-8:30 involves physical movement:
Come be active in our self defense workshop! In this workshop, we'll go over how to keep your body in good condition while living a busy life, as well as basic self-defense for keeping yourself safe in emergency situations. Note: Please be dressed comfortably to stretch and exercise.
About the educator: Lionel Abdool (he/him) has been part of the Seattle kink community since 2018. He has worked on the education committees of leather orgs, like Seattle Leather Service Corps, to help organize and provide kink education to the community, as well as hosting private events in the Seattle area and kink education events at conventions. He is a certified 2nd Dan in Taekwondo and Hapkido and has been a martial arts instructor for 10 years working with people ages 3 to 60. Additionally he is a Certified Personal Trainer, self defense instructor, and group fitness instructor
Paid Event
Masked Queer MunchTue, Aug 18th · 7:00 PMMeet other kink-minded or kink-curious __Queer humans__. The primary goal of this munch is to socialize and meet people. You can safely assume these people are at least a little bit kinky, so you don't need to bring up those conversations -- Just come say hi to colorful humans and enjoy the venue space.
Second-of-the-month Queer Munches are MASKED events. You are required to bring a mask, or take one of our free masks. If you bring your own, please make sure it rates as a kn94/kn95+. You must wear it before entering the building.
This event is run by Raven Dubh, through their LLC, EventsInBlack.com. The in-person hosts for the event are not shown here. Check FetLife.Masks Required
TransMasc Support GroupSun, Aug 30th · 2:00 PMThis support group is a confidential, affirming space for transmasculine people, including trans men and transmasc nonbinary folks. The group is centered on shared experiences, peer support, and honest conversation in an environment that prioritizes respect, safety, and consent.
Participants are welcome at any stage of their journey. Whether you’re seeking connection, space to process, or simply to listen, you are invited to show up in whatever way feels right. There is no pressure to speak, share, or educate. Participation is always optional.
This is a transmasc-only space. To protect the integrity of the group, allies and non-transmasculine individuals are asked to respect that this group is not intended for them.
Confidentiality is expected. What is shared in the group stays in the group. Harassment, discrimination, or intrusive questioning will not be tolerated.Masks Required
M/s and Play: Power in PracticeTue, Sep 1st · 5:30 PMThis class explores how psychological and physical play intersects with authority transfer, whether contained to scenes or woven into daily life. We’ll examine intention, negotiation, and the ways power and authority show up in both erotic and non-erotic contexts. Participants will be invited to think critically about why they play, how it connects to their dynamic, and how to align play with the values and structure of their relationship.
Kinky CraftingWed, Sep 2nd · 7:00 PMKinky Crafting is a recurring crafting social hosted at the Kink Center venue in Capitol Hill, Seattle.
Kinky Crafting is a relaxed social space for working on projects while connecting with the kink community. Sewing, toy building, gear mending, and vanilla crafts are all welcome.
Kinky Crafting is open to all skill levels and provides a low-pressure setting for meeting people in the Seattle kink community.
This event is Mask Optional+3 more
TransMasc Support GroupSun, Sep 6th · 2:00 PMThis support group is a confidential, affirming space for transmasculine people, including trans men and transmasc nonbinary folks. The group is centered on shared experiences, peer support, and honest conversation in an environment that prioritizes respect, safety, and consent.
Participants are welcome at any stage of their journey. Whether you’re seeking connection, space to process, or simply to listen, you are invited to show up in whatever way feels right. There is no pressure to speak, share, or educate. Participation is always optional.
This is a transmasc-only space. To protect the integrity of the group, allies and non-transmasculine individuals are asked to respect that this group is not intended for them.
Confidentiality is expected. What is shared in the group stays in the group. Harassment, discrimination, or intrusive questioning will not be tolerated.Masks Required

Cozy Kink Cinema – First Monday Movie NightMon, Sep 7th · 5:00 PMPull on your softest onesie, slip into your favorite pajamas, or keep it casual in your day-to-day comfies - you’re invited to settle in for a night of cult classics, queer-edged cinema, kinky storytelling, and creature features.\
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Sponsored by **Squidly Co. Fantasy Toys**, this **free** First Monday monthly gathering is all about low-pressure, high-comfort vibes. Whether you’re a film buff, a kink-curious newbie, or just looking for a plush spot to land on a Monday night, you belong here!
## 5 - 5:30 PM: Social & Snack Share
Bring your own snacks or something store bought to pass around the circle. Chips, cookies, fruit, finger foods - if it’s delicious and low-mess, it’s welcome! (Please keep the ingredients list on the packaging for common allergens.) We also encourage bringing pillows and blankets as most of us will likely be on the floor for a (PG and consensual) cuddle puddle. Couches will be reserved for those with mobility and accessibility needs.
## 5:30 PM: Movie Start
We’ll roll the film after a brief reminder about courtesy and consent while chatting and cuddling.
## Midway: Brief Intermission
Stretch, refill your water, hit the bathroom, or whisper theories with a new friend.
## After Credits: Brief Guided Discussion
There's no pressure to be a film scholar! Just a friendly chat about themes, tropes, turn-ons, and what made you squirm!
Future Film Suggestions: Got a movie you’ve been dying to watch with other kinksters? Bring your suggestions - we’ll build the next few months’ lineup together!
Dress Code: Whatever’s comfy and PG. Onesies, hoodies, pajama pants, fuzzy robes, casual street clothes, or that one outfit that feels like a hug. No fetish gear please.
Feral: September Theme TBDSat, Sep 12th · 7:00 PMJoin DJ's vain_flesh and Morgue Anne for a spring awakening at Feral:September Theme TBD, our latest play party 9/12 at Kink Center. We will have adult furniture and some safer sex supplies available, bring your toy bag and some dancing shoes!
This is an 18 and over event with no alcohol on site. We will provide a small assortment of NA drinks and snacks, feel free to bring something to share. Please note that we will be checking IDs at the door to verify age, so make sure you have yours available.
Doors at 7pm, No entry after 10pm. Due to limited space and the nature of the event, registration is required. There will be no tickets sold at the door.
We are pleased to say that our venue is fully ADA accessible and is well equipped with air purifiers throughout the space. A volunteer will be at the gate entrance off Pike to check ID and provide access.Paid Event
TransMasc Support GroupSun, Sep 13th · 2:00 PMThis support group is a confidential, affirming space for transmasculine people, including trans men and transmasc nonbinary folks. The group is centered on shared experiences, peer support, and honest conversation in an environment that prioritizes respect, safety, and consent.
Participants are welcome at any stage of their journey. Whether you’re seeking connection, space to process, or simply to listen, you are invited to show up in whatever way feels right. There is no pressure to speak, share, or educate. Participation is always optional.
This is a transmasc-only space. To protect the integrity of the group, allies and non-transmasculine individuals are asked to respect that this group is not intended for them.
Confidentiality is expected. What is shared in the group stays in the group. Harassment, discrimination, or intrusive questioning will not be tolerated.Masks Required
Masked Queer MunchTue, Sep 15th · 7:00 PMMeet other kink-minded or kink-curious __Queer humans__. The primary goal of this munch is to socialize and meet people. You can safely assume these people are at least a little bit kinky, so you don't need to bring up those conversations -- Just come say hi to colorful humans and enjoy the venue space.
Second-of-the-month Queer Munches are MASKED events. You are required to bring a mask, or take one of our free masks. If you bring your own, please make sure it rates as a kn94/kn95+. You must wear it before entering the building.
This event is run by Raven Dubh, through their LLC, EventsInBlack.com. The in-person hosts for the event are not shown here. Check FetLife.Masks Required
Masked Kinky CraftingSun, Sep 20th · 2:00 PMKinky Crafting is a recurring crafting social hosted at the Kink Center venue in Capitol Hill, Seattle.
Kinky Crafting is a relaxed social space for working on projects while connecting with the kink community. Sewing, toy building, gear mending, and vanilla crafts are all welcome.
Kinky Crafting is open to all skill levels and provides a low-pressure setting for meeting people in the Seattle kink community.
This event is Mask Required (KN95 or better).Masks Required+2 more
New Beginnings: Endings in M/sTue, Sep 22nd · 5:30 PMEndings are not failures of M/s, but inevitable transitions that, when approached with intention and care, can preserve dignity, honor the dynamic, and support meaningful personal evolution.
Not all relationships last forever, but all endings deserve intention.
This class explores the many ways M/s relationships can end: breakups, restructuring, loss, aging, and death. We’ll discuss both the emotional and practical realities of endings, including grief, identity shifts, and healing. Rather than framing endings as failure, we approach them as transitions that can be navigated with care, dignity, and growth. Participants will leave with tools and perspectives for moving forward - whatever that looks like.
Back To School Night- Kink Educator SocialSat, Sep 26th · 7:00 PM2nd Annual Kink Educator Social
Back to School Night, hosted by Kink Center, is an event for kink educator appreciation. We want to show our gratitude to all kink and alternative lifestyle educators in the area, especially those who have been, will be, and are considering teaching in our space. If you teach about kink or alternative lifestyle, regardless of the topic or how often, we would love to meet you!
This event is mask required to make it the most accessible to the most people. Kink Center is an accessibility-first, non-profit organization located in Capitol Hill. Our space is ADA accessible with viral-safer precautions and air conditioning.
Don't teach? No problem! You are still very welcome to attend. We want to encourage those who support education in kink spaces to come and mingle!
TransMasc Support GroupSun, Sep 27th · 2:00 PMThis support group is a confidential, affirming space for transmasculine people, including trans men and transmasc nonbinary folks. The group is centered on shared experiences, peer support, and honest conversation in an environment that prioritizes respect, safety, and consent.
Participants are welcome at any stage of their journey. Whether you’re seeking connection, space to process, or simply to listen, you are invited to show up in whatever way feels right. There is no pressure to speak, share, or educate. Participation is always optional.
This is a transmasc-only space. To protect the integrity of the group, allies and non-transmasculine individuals are asked to respect that this group is not intended for them.
Confidentiality is expected. What is shared in the group stays in the group. Harassment, discrimination, or intrusive questioning will not be tolerated.Masks Required
TransMasc Support GroupSun, Oct 4th · 2:00 PMThis support group is a confidential, affirming space for transmasculine people, including trans men and transmasc nonbinary folks. The group is centered on shared experiences, peer support, and honest conversation in an environment that prioritizes respect, safety, and consent.
Participants are welcome at any stage of their journey. Whether you’re seeking connection, space to process, or simply to listen, you are invited to show up in whatever way feels right. There is no pressure to speak, share, or educate. Participation is always optional.
This is a transmasc-only space. To protect the integrity of the group, allies and non-transmasculine individuals are asked to respect that this group is not intended for them.
Confidentiality is expected. What is shared in the group stays in the group. Harassment, discrimination, or intrusive questioning will not be tolerated.Masks Required
Kinky CraftingWed, Oct 7th · 7:00 PMKinky Crafting is a recurring crafting social hosted at the Kink Center venue in Capitol Hill, Seattle.
Kinky Crafting is a relaxed social space for working on projects while connecting with the kink community. Sewing, toy building, gear mending, and vanilla crafts are all welcome.
Kinky Crafting is open to all skill levels and provides a low-pressure setting for meeting people in the Seattle kink community.
This event is Mask Optional+2 more
Feral: Spooky Sexy Skeletons!Sat, Oct 10th · 7:00 PMJoin DJ's vain_flesh and Morgue Anne for a spring awakening at Feral: Spooky Sexy Skeletons, our latest play party 10/10 at Kink Center. We will have adult furniture and some safer sex supplies available, bring your toy bag and some dancing shoes!
This is an 18 and over event with no alcohol on site. We will provide a small assortment of NA drinks and snacks, feel free to bring something to share. Please note that we will be checking IDs at the door to verify age, so make sure you have yours available.
Doors at 7pm, No entry after 10pm. Due to limited space and the nature of the event, registration is required. There will be no tickets sold at the door.
We are pleased to say that our venue is fully ADA accessible and is well equipped with air purifiers throughout the space. A volunteer will be at the gate entrance off Pike to check ID and provide access.Paid Event
TransMasc Support GroupSun, Oct 11th · 2:00 PMThis support group is a confidential, affirming space for transmasculine people, including trans men and transmasc nonbinary folks. The group is centered on shared experiences, peer support, and honest conversation in an environment that prioritizes respect, safety, and consent.
Participants are welcome at any stage of their journey. Whether you’re seeking connection, space to process, or simply to listen, you are invited to show up in whatever way feels right. There is no pressure to speak, share, or educate. Participation is always optional.
This is a transmasc-only space. To protect the integrity of the group, allies and non-transmasculine individuals are asked to respect that this group is not intended for them.
Confidentiality is expected. What is shared in the group stays in the group. Harassment, discrimination, or intrusive questioning will not be tolerated.Masks Required

Leather Bitch's Birthday ExtravaganzaSat, Oct 17th · 6:00 PMCome one, come all to your nightmare and my fantasy! On my birthday, there will be humiliation, impact, bondage, PAIN (with consent, of course) and lots and lots of fun! The night includes kiddy games with a BDSM twist, a CBT scene (my biggest fantasy) and a dance party afterwards! Join me in:
* Anal plug/spoon race!
* Corn hole with dildos!
* Charades and ‘don’t laugh challenge’ with BDSM subjects
* Painting a picture with no hands!
* An untie challenge!
* Twister in bondage!
* Bingo – must be paying attention throughout party to get a prize!
Also, for my birthday present, I’d like to do some CBT – kick some balls in! I want to line up participants and go down the line, kicking as I go to take in the suffering! The rest of my party will turn the place into a dance floor, my favorite pastime. I can’t do this all by myself though; I’ll need:
* CBT: I need 5 volunteers who want their balls kicked in.
* Help with checking people in and moving/cleaning – 2 people
* Very Important: need dungeon monitor with extensive CBT experience
Let’s have a fun night together!
Paid Event
Rope Self-Tie - Harness Your Built-In Chill SystemSun, Oct 18th · 11:00 AMJoin Sir Blooms for a mask-required parasympathetic nervous system activation workshop! Learn a beginner accessible floor self-tie that can by modified for most body types, including a chair version. This tie is based on the same principles as Temple Grandin's Hug Machine! This class is good for anyone looking for tools to help manage anxiety.
Please bring:
* Mask (KN95 or better)
* 2 hanks of 1/4" nylon rope, 12-20ft
* A mat or cushion
Some masks, mats, and ropes will be available for use
Masks RequiredPaid Event
Masked Kinky CraftingSun, Oct 18th · 2:00 PMKinky Crafting is a recurring crafting social hosted at the Kink Center venue in Capitol Hill, Seattle.
Kinky Crafting is a relaxed social space for working on projects while connecting with the kink community. Sewing, toy building, gear mending, and vanilla crafts are all welcome.
Kinky Crafting is open to all skill levels and provides a low-pressure setting for meeting people in the Seattle kink community.
This event is Mask Required (KN95 or better).Masks Required+1 more
Frill Seekers: A celebration of feminizationSat, Oct 24th · 5:00 PMA celebration of feminization (formerly called En Femme) is a kinky social mixer with light BDSM play and sex allowed. Our mission is to celebrate hyper-feminization. We are planning to have a fashion parade for our attendees to show off their finery, opportunities to serve and be served, crafts such as bracelet making for flagging purposes, tasters (makeup, wigs, and BDSM planned), and a photographer.
More information to come
Paid Event
TransMasc Support GroupSun, Oct 25th · 2:00 PMThis support group is a confidential, affirming space for transmasculine people, including trans men and transmasc nonbinary folks. The group is centered on shared experiences, peer support, and honest conversation in an environment that prioritizes respect, safety, and consent.
Participants are welcome at any stage of their journey. Whether you’re seeking connection, space to process, or simply to listen, you are invited to show up in whatever way feels right. There is no pressure to speak, share, or educate. Participation is always optional.
This is a transmasc-only space. To protect the integrity of the group, allies and non-transmasculine individuals are asked to respect that this group is not intended for them.
Confidentiality is expected. What is shared in the group stays in the group. Harassment, discrimination, or intrusive questioning will not be tolerated.Masks Required
TransMasc Support GroupSun, Nov 1st · 2:00 PMThis support group is a confidential, affirming space for transmasculine people, including trans men and transmasc nonbinary folks. The group is centered on shared experiences, peer support, and honest conversation in an environment that prioritizes respect, safety, and consent.
Participants are welcome at any stage of their journey. Whether you’re seeking connection, space to process, or simply to listen, you are invited to show up in whatever way feels right. There is no pressure to speak, share, or educate. Participation is always optional.
This is a transmasc-only space. To protect the integrity of the group, allies and non-transmasculine individuals are asked to respect that this group is not intended for them.
Confidentiality is expected. What is shared in the group stays in the group. Harassment, discrimination, or intrusive questioning will not be tolerated.Masks Required
Kinky CraftingWed, Nov 4th · 7:00 PMKinky Crafting is a recurring crafting social hosted at the Kink Center venue in Capitol Hill, Seattle.
Kinky Crafting is a relaxed social space for working on projects while connecting with the kink community. Sewing, toy building, gear mending, and vanilla crafts are all welcome.
Kinky Crafting is open to all skill levels and provides a low-pressure setting for meeting people in the Seattle kink community.
This event is Mask Optional+1 more
TransMasc Support GroupSun, Nov 8th · 2:00 PMThis support group is a confidential, affirming space for transmasculine people, including trans men and transmasc nonbinary folks. The group is centered on shared experiences, peer support, and honest conversation in an environment that prioritizes respect, safety, and consent.
Participants are welcome at any stage of their journey. Whether you’re seeking connection, space to process, or simply to listen, you are invited to show up in whatever way feels right. There is no pressure to speak, share, or educate. Participation is always optional.
This is a transmasc-only space. To protect the integrity of the group, allies and non-transmasculine individuals are asked to respect that this group is not intended for them.
Confidentiality is expected. What is shared in the group stays in the group. Harassment, discrimination, or intrusive questioning will not be tolerated.Masks Required
Neo Ippon-Nawa ClassSat, Nov 14th · 10:00 AMIntro to Neo-Ippon Nawa — The contemporary evolution of Ippon Nawa inspired by Yukimura Ryu, as envisioned by renowned artists Kinbakuartistmiki & Xin. In Ippon Nawa, a single rope becomes a canvas for creativity, presence, and emotional connection. Neo-Ippon Nawa expands upon this by prioritizing collaboration, safety, freedom of expression improvisation, and the sensual dialogue.
Workshop Schedule:
Part 1: Introduction to Neo-Ippon Nawa which include core principles, connection-focused techniques, and the aesthetics of one-rope play. 10am-12pm
Break 12pm-1pm lunch break
Part 2: Neo-Ippon Nawa Partials taught in 3 progressive steps. 1pm-5pm
Class requirements:\
3 Hanks of 8m or 10m rope - 5mm or 5.5mm. if you need to purchase ropes please preorder with Kinbakuartistmiki via fetlife at @young_miki
Masks RequiredPaid Event
Feral: Theme TBDSat, Nov 14th · 7:00 PMJoin DJ's vain_flesh and Morgue Anne for a spring awakening at Feral: Theme TBD, our latest play party 11/14 at Kink Center. We will have adult furniture and some safer sex supplies available, bring your toy bag and some dancing shoes!
This is an 18 and over event with no alcohol on site. We will provide a small assortment of NA drinks and snacks, feel free to bring something to share. Please note that we will be checking IDs at the door to verify age, so make sure you have yours available.
Doors at 7pm, No entry after 10pm. Due to limited space and the nature of the event, registration is required. There will be no tickets sold at the door.
We are pleased to say that our venue is fully ADA accessible and is well equipped with air purifiers throughout the space. A volunteer will be at the gate entrance off Pike to check ID and provide access.Paid Event
Masked Kinky CraftingSun, Nov 15th · 2:00 PMKinky Crafting is a recurring crafting social hosted at the Kink Center venue in Capitol Hill, Seattle.
Kinky Crafting is a relaxed social space for working on projects while connecting with the kink community. Sewing, toy building, gear mending, and vanilla crafts are all welcome.
Kinky Crafting is open to all skill levels and provides a low-pressure setting for meeting people in the Seattle kink community.
This event is Mask Required (KN95 or better).Masks Required
TransMasc Support GroupSun, Nov 22nd · 2:00 PMThis support group is a confidential, affirming space for transmasculine people, including trans men and transmasc nonbinary folks. The group is centered on shared experiences, peer support, and honest conversation in an environment that prioritizes respect, safety, and consent.
Participants are welcome at any stage of their journey. Whether you’re seeking connection, space to process, or simply to listen, you are invited to show up in whatever way feels right. There is no pressure to speak, share, or educate. Participation is always optional.
This is a transmasc-only space. To protect the integrity of the group, allies and non-transmasculine individuals are asked to respect that this group is not intended for them.
Confidentiality is expected. What is shared in the group stays in the group. Harassment, discrimination, or intrusive questioning will not be tolerated.Masks Required
TransMasc Support GroupSun, Nov 29th · 2:00 PMThis support group is a confidential, affirming space for transmasculine people, including trans men and transmasc nonbinary folks. The group is centered on shared experiences, peer support, and honest conversation in an environment that prioritizes respect, safety, and consent.
Participants are welcome at any stage of their journey. Whether you’re seeking connection, space to process, or simply to listen, you are invited to show up in whatever way feels right. There is no pressure to speak, share, or educate. Participation is always optional.
This is a transmasc-only space. To protect the integrity of the group, allies and non-transmasculine individuals are asked to respect that this group is not intended for them.
Confidentiality is expected. What is shared in the group stays in the group. Harassment, discrimination, or intrusive questioning will not be tolerated.Masks Required