Events at Kink Center
Events at Kink Center
Taking Back Taking- touch lab for trans, femmes, and thems 6_8:30Mon, Jun 15th · 6:00 PMIn the dominant culture a select few bodies are encouraged to take for their pleasure. Many bodies are harmed in these normed, nonconsensual acts of taking. This lab is a reclamation of consensually taking action for YOUR pleasure! For five weeks, as trans, femmes, and thems we will practice taking action for our pleasure, get to know our embodied desire & want, and negotiate consensual touch with others. Drawn from the lineages of Wheel of Consent, Somatic Sex Education, and partner dancing.
In this series you will learn
~ skills and practices from the Wheel of Consent
~ somatic practice negotiating consensual taking
~ celebrating no and receiving a no
~ what your embodied pleasure and wanting feel like
What is held practice space?
Greta and Kk will lead warm up exercises, there will be time to practice the skills, and we will wrap up with time to savor and reflect.
All touch is fully clothed. The series will begin with platonic touch with later invitations to erotic touch.Paid Event
Masked Queer MunchTue, Jun 16th · 7:00 PMMeet other kink-minded or kink-curious __Queer humans__. The primary goal of this munch is to socialize and meet people. You can safely assume these people are at least a little bit kinky, so you don't need to bring up those conversations -- Just come say hi to colorful humans and enjoy the venue space.
Second-of-the-month Queer Munches are MASKED events. You are required to bring a mask, or take one of our free masks. If you bring your own, please make sure it rates as a kn94/kn95+. You must wear it before entering the building.
This event is run by Raven Dubh, through their LLC, EventsInBlack.com. The in-person hosts for the event are not shown here. Check FetLife.Masks Required
Live Nude Figure DrawingWed, Jun 17th · 6:00 PMA drawing session for artists to practice anatomy, gesture, and life drawing.
Recurring Kink Support GroupThu, Jun 18th · 5:00 PMThis is an open peer support group. We use creative arts modalities (mainly poetry and drama) to explore and share emotions and experiences together. This is a support group made by and for the kink community.
Recurring Board Game MunchThu, Jun 18th · 7:00 PMCome play board games and make new kinky friends, every other Thursday! Bringing your own games and snacks is encouraged.
Anatomy 101 for BDSMSat, Jun 20th · 1:00 PMCome learn important information from an ER nurse who is also an experienced kinkster. This class will cover three essential topics for people who engage in BDSM:
1) A walkthrough of different parts of the human anatomy that will help you make safer choices in your play and understand the risks inherent in many BDSM activities.
2) The appropriate actions to take in response to the consequences of these types of play.
3) Risk profiles and their importance in engaging in safer consensual play.
Additionally, the class will contain some discussion of certain law-related aspects that pertain to helping people in emergency situations.
To cultivate a culture of informed consent, both tops and bottoms must understand how different types of play can affect the body. This class gives you the information you need to build your own risk profile and not have to rely on myths and opinions heard through other kinksters in their community.
Bio:
Lilithan has been an Emergency and Trauma Registered Nurse for 8 years. She has a decade of experience as a Switch spent in multiple places in the US. In addition, she is a Mistress of La Domaine Esemar in NY.
Lilithan is passionate about safety, creating welcoming spaces, and sharing her experience through education.
You can follow her at https://fetlife.com/LilithanMasks RequiredPaid Event
PEx Discussion GroupSat, Jun 20th · 6:00 PMDiscussion group for those interested or in power exchange or power dynamic based relationships.
Masked Kinky CraftingSun, Jun 21st · 2:00 PMKinky Crafting is a recurring crafting social hosted at the Kink Center venue in Capitol Hill, Seattle.
Kinky Crafting is a relaxed social space for working on projects while connecting with the kink community. Sewing, toy building, gear mending, and vanilla crafts are all welcome.
Kinky Crafting is open to all skill levels and provides a low-pressure setting for meeting people in the Seattle kink community.
This event is Mask Required (KN95 or better).Masks Required+1 more
The Testimony of Kink: A Drama Therapy Processing GroupMon, Jun 22nd · 6:00 PMThis is a drama therapy processing group by means of therapeutic validation and healing within the kink realm. A thought shared by many kinsters, kink has the healing potential to replace the parts of our lives lost due to trauma. This group will explore and process how kink has therapeutically supported them using drama therapy testimonial techniques such as The Fairytale, storytelling, and autobiographical therapeutic performance. Participants will experience the healing aspects of their stories being witnessed by blurring the lines between performance and identity. Individuals, couples, play partners/groups of all sizes are all welcome to participate.Paid Event+4 more
Edge of Chaos- Whip 101- Hands onSat, Jun 27th · 3:00 PMDescription: This class covers basic handling of a single tail whip with control. We’ll go over body mechanics of the Top, how to grip and aim, and how to avoid the wild throws. This beginner-friendly class focuses on safety in play, care of the whip, and creating a good foundation to build your skills.
Please bring:
- Whip (if you have one, limited number will be available for use.)
- Eye protection (prescription glasses are fine)
- Wide brim hat (if you have one)
- KN95+ Mask (extras provided by venue)
Instructor Bio:
Joker has been exploring kink for over 20 years, with deep roots in the South Sound since 2012. He is a member of the South Sound Leather Alliance and a practicing Sadist. He lives in the chaos, where control is learned, not assumed. With the whip, the edge of chaos is immediate. What starts as wild throws, missed targets, and hesitation, is shaped into precision, consistency, and intent. Joker’s teaching focuses on building strong fundamentals in body mechanics and control, helping attendees turn unpredictable movement into confident, directed impact.Masks RequiredPaid Event+1 more
(Private Event)Sat, Jun 27th · 6:00 PM(Private Event)
TransMasc Support GroupSun, Jun 28th · 2:00 PMThis support group is a confidential, affirming space for transmasculine people, including trans men and transmasc nonbinary folks. The group is centered on shared experiences, peer support, and honest conversation in an environment that prioritizes respect, safety, and consent.
Participants are welcome at any stage of their journey. Whether you’re seeking connection, space to process, or simply to listen, you are invited to show up in whatever way feels right. There is no pressure to speak, share, or educate. Participation is always optional.
This is a transmasc-only space. To protect the integrity of the group, allies and non-transmasculine individuals are asked to respect that this group is not intended for them.
Confidentiality is expected. What is shared in the group stays in the group. Harassment, discrimination, or intrusive questioning will not be tolerated.Masks Required
Edge of Chaos- Whip 101- Hands onSun, Jun 28th · 6:00 PMDescription: This class covers basic handling of a single tail whip with control. We’ll go over body mechanics of the Top, how to grip and aim, and how to avoid the wild throws. This beginner-friendly class focuses on safety in play, care of the whip, and creating a good foundation to build your skills.
Please bring:
- Whip (if you have one, limited number will be available for use.)
- Eye protection (prescription glasses are fine)
- Wide brim hat (if you have one)
Instructor Bio:
Joker has been exploring kink for over 20 years, with deep roots in the South Sound since 2012. He is a member of the South Sound Leather Alliance and a practicing Sadist. He lives in the chaos, where control is learned, not assumed. With the whip, the edge of chaos is immediate. What starts as wild throws, missed targets, and hesitation, is shaped into precision, consistency, and intent. Joker’s teaching focuses on building strong fundamentals in body mechanics and control, helping attendees turn unpredictable movement into confident, directed impact.Paid Event
The Testimony of Kink: A Drama Therapy Processing GroupMon, Jun 29th · 6:00 PMThis is a drama therapy processing group by means of therapeutic validation and healing within the kink realm. A thought shared by many kinsters, kink has the healing potential to replace the parts of our lives lost due to trauma. This group will explore and process how kink has therapeutically supported them using drama therapy testimonial techniques such as The Fairytale, storytelling, and autobiographical therapeutic performance. Participants will experience the healing aspects of their stories being witnessed by blurring the lines between performance and identity. Individuals, couples, play partners/groups of all sizes are all welcome to participate.Paid Event+3 more
Kinky CraftingWed, Jul 1st · 7:00 PMKinky Crafting is a recurring crafting social hosted at the Kink Center venue in Capitol Hill, Seattle.
Kinky Crafting is a relaxed social space for working on projects while connecting with the kink community. Sewing, toy building, gear mending, and vanilla crafts are all welcome.
Kinky Crafting is open to all skill levels and provides a low-pressure setting for meeting people in the Seattle kink community.
This event is Mask Optional
Recurring Kink Support GroupThu, Jul 2nd · 5:00 PMThis is an open peer support group. We use creative arts modalities (mainly poetry and drama) to explore and share emotions and experiences together. This is a support group made by and for the kink community.
Recurring Board Game MunchThu, Jul 2nd · 7:00 PMCome play board games and make new kinky friends, every other Thursday! Bringing your own games and snacks is encouraged.
Masked MayhemFri, Jul 3rd · 8:00 PMDo you wear a mask, and look for mask-required events?
Join us every First Friday from 8pm - Midnight for a mask mandatory play party for those who wear High-Fidelity Masks in their day-to-day lives
This party aims to serve immunocompromised and high-risk community members by maintaining an ADA space with HEPA Air Purifiers and CO2 monitors. Allied folks who mask in their daily lives are very welcome here
If you do not wear a mask in your daily life, we ask that you not attend this event and check out our different Kink Center offerings this month!Masks RequiredPaid Event
TransMasc Support GroupSun, Jul 5th · 2:00 PMThis support group is a confidential, affirming space for transmasculine people, including trans men and transmasc nonbinary folks. The group is centered on shared experiences, peer support, and honest conversation in an environment that prioritizes respect, safety, and consent.
Participants are welcome at any stage of their journey. Whether you’re seeking connection, space to process, or simply to listen, you are invited to show up in whatever way feels right. There is no pressure to speak, share, or educate. Participation is always optional.
This is a transmasc-only space. To protect the integrity of the group, allies and non-transmasculine individuals are asked to respect that this group is not intended for them.
Confidentiality is expected. What is shared in the group stays in the group. Harassment, discrimination, or intrusive questioning will not be tolerated.Masks Required
The Testimony of Kink: A Drama Therapy Processing GroupMon, Jul 6th · 6:00 PMThis is a drama therapy processing group by means of therapeutic validation and healing within the kink realm. A thought shared by many kinsters, kink has the healing potential to replace the parts of our lives lost due to trauma. This group will explore and process how kink has therapeutically supported them using drama therapy testimonial techniques such as The Fairytale, storytelling, and autobiographical therapeutic performance. Participants will experience the healing aspects of their stories being witnessed by blurring the lines between performance and identity. Individuals, couples, play partners/groups of all sizes are all welcome to participate.Paid Event+2 more
Actualizing M/s: From Idea to PracticeTue, Jul 7th · 5:30 PMThis class focuses on what M/s actually looks like in real-world practice. Together, we’ll unpack common stereotypes, challenge prescriptive dynamics, and explore how authority transfer functions in everyday life. From logistics to emotional realities, we’ll examine how people build sustainable, intentional relationships that don’t rely on “one true way” thinking. Participants will leave with a clearer sense of how to translate desire into structure, and philosophy into lived experience
NITE SOUNDS Masks-Required Dance w/ DJ Olivia Mutant-John & DJ Jay-A-EdgeFri, Jul 10th · 7:00 PMRescheduled date for our postponed masked dance event.Masks RequiredPaid Event
Feral: SlushSat, Jul 11th · 7:00 PMJoin DJ's vain_flesh and Morgue Anne for a spring awakening at Feral: Slush, our latest play party 7/11 at Kink Center. We will have adult furniture and some safer sex supplies available, bring your toy bag and some dancing shoes!
This is an 18 and over event with no alcohol on site. We will provide a small assortment of NA drinks and snacks, feel free to bring something to share. Please note that we will be checking IDs at the door to verify age, so make sure you have yours available.
Doors at 7pm, No entry after 10pm. Due to limited space and the nature of the event, registration is required. There will be no tickets sold at the door.
We are pleased to say that our venue is fully ADA accessible and is well equipped with air purifiers throughout the space. A volunteer will be at the gate entrance off Pike to check ID and provide access.Paid Event
TransMasc Support GroupSun, Jul 12th · 2:00 PMThis support group is a confidential, affirming space for transmasculine people, including trans men and transmasc nonbinary folks. The group is centered on shared experiences, peer support, and honest conversation in an environment that prioritizes respect, safety, and consent.
Participants are welcome at any stage of their journey. Whether you’re seeking connection, space to process, or simply to listen, you are invited to show up in whatever way feels right. There is no pressure to speak, share, or educate. Participation is always optional.
This is a transmasc-only space. To protect the integrity of the group, allies and non-transmasculine individuals are asked to respect that this group is not intended for them.
Confidentiality is expected. What is shared in the group stays in the group. Harassment, discrimination, or intrusive questioning will not be tolerated.Masks Required
The Testimony of Kink: A Drama Therapy Processing GroupMon, Jul 13th · 6:00 PMThis is a drama therapy processing group by means of therapeutic validation and healing within the kink realm. A thought shared by many kinsters, kink has the healing potential to replace the parts of our lives lost due to trauma. This group will explore and process how kink has therapeutically supported them using drama therapy testimonial techniques such as The Fairytale, storytelling, and autobiographical therapeutic performance. Participants will experience the healing aspects of their stories being witnessed by blurring the lines between performance and identity. Individuals, couples, play partners/groups of all sizes are all welcome to participate.Paid Event+1 more
Sub Club (social)Tue, Jul 14th · 7:00 PMSupport/discussion group for s-types
Live Nude Figure DrawingWed, Jul 15th · 6:00 PMA drawing session for artists to practice anatomy, gesture, and life drawing.
Recurring Kink Support GroupThu, Jul 16th · 5:00 PMThis is an open peer support group. We use creative arts modalities (mainly poetry and drama) to explore and share emotions and experiences together. This is a support group made by and for the kink community.
Recurring Board Game MunchThu, Jul 16th · 7:00 PMCome play board games and make new kinky friends, every other Thursday! Bringing your own games and snacks is encouraged.
Masked Kinky CraftingSun, Jul 19th · 2:00 PMKinky Crafting is a recurring crafting social hosted at the Kink Center venue in Capitol Hill, Seattle.
Kinky Crafting is a relaxed social space for working on projects while connecting with the kink community. Sewing, toy building, gear mending, and vanilla crafts are all welcome.
Kinky Crafting is open to all skill levels and provides a low-pressure setting for meeting people in the Seattle kink community.
This event is Mask Required (KN95 or better).Masks Required
Puppy Play 101 - Intro to Puppy PlaySun, Jul 19th · 5:00 PMAttending 101 is a prerequisite for attending 102.
Puppy Play 101 - July 19 and August 1 from 5-7pm - Introduction to Puppy Play and Basic Obedience
Puppy Play 102 -August 1 from 7:30-9:30pm - Introduction to Electronic collar training and Off-leash Obedience
Are you a budding Handler, Top, pup, sub or Dominant who would like to develop or improve your Leash and Pet Handling skills?
While this class is centered around Puppy Play, we invite all pets, critters, subs, Doms and Handlers to attend as the concepts being taught are adaptable to all things Behavior.
In this class, we will cover the fundamentals of Operant Conditioning, marker training, and lay foundational work for Engagement rituals and Obedience. Student handlers will learn how to evaluate and establish baselines for each pup and to modify techniques and practices to preserve safety and health. Students will learn how to play on each other's strengths, mold weaknesses into strengths, all while building a deeper bond with each other.
What to bring:
* Dress comfortably - think gym and athletic wear. You should be wearing something you can comfortably squat, crawl, and move around
* Water and your own snacks/food
* slave or puppy hood - must be able to see and breathe comfortably
* Leash - if you have
* Collar - if you have
* Treats - be creative: m&ms, skittles, croutons, grapes, apple slices and tampons have been used. Don't ask. Treats should be something that the pup can easily chew and swallow, but please be mindful of choking risks.
* Puppy toys - tugs, balls, squeaky toys- if you like 'em and you have 'em, bring 'em.
We will have leashes on hand for anyone who needs to borrow them for class. If you're missing any gear, we can work around it.
About the Instructor:
The Samoan Goddess, Miss Jade, hails straight from the Islands of Samoa, is a Marine Corps Veteran and has worked in the Behavioral Psychology industry for over a decade as a Life Skills and Executive Functioning Coach for neurodivergent adults. She has owned her own Behavioral coaching practice for the last 8 years, teaching clients how to mitigate PTSD symptoms by creating better coping habits, while also contracting as a trainer to help other Therapy practices create and incorporate Animal-assisted therapies into their programs. She enjoys watching her students grow and gain self-confidence in their ability to problem-solve under pressure and on their feet.
Health & Safety:
You are responsible for your own health and safety. Pups should be able to do 10 squats comfortably and be able to move around on all fours for 3-5-min increments. If you have any health and mobility limitations that may affect our work together (high blood pressure, bad knees, etc.), please disclose them during class so we can adjust ourselves accordingly. You are your own best advocate, and we strongly encourage self-advocacy during class.
Paid Event+1 more
The Testimony of Kink: A Drama Therapy Processing GroupMon, Jul 20th · 6:00 PMThis is a drama therapy processing group by means of therapeutic validation and healing within the kink realm. A thought shared by many kinsters, kink has the healing potential to replace the parts of our lives lost due to trauma. This group will explore and process how kink has therapeutically supported them using drama therapy testimonial techniques such as The Fairytale, storytelling, and autobiographical therapeutic performance. Participants will experience the healing aspects of their stories being witnessed by blurring the lines between performance and identity. Individuals, couples, play partners/groups of all sizes are all welcome to participate.Paid Event
Masked Queer MunchTue, Jul 21st · 7:00 PMMeet other kink-minded or kink-curious __Queer humans__. The primary goal of this munch is to socialize and meet people. You can safely assume these people are at least a little bit kinky, so you don't need to bring up those conversations -- Just come say hi to colorful humans and enjoy the venue space.
Second-of-the-month Queer Munches are MASKED events. You are required to bring a mask, or take one of our free masks. If you bring your own, please make sure it rates as a kn94/kn95+. You must wear it before entering the building.
This event is run by Raven Dubh, through their LLC, EventsInBlack.com. The in-person hosts for the event are not shown here. Check FetLife.Masks Required
(Private Event)Sat, Jul 25th · 8:00 PM(Private Event)Paid Event
SEA-PAH W.E.T. MoshSun, Jul 26th · 2:00 PMWomen, Enby, and Trans centered moshMasks Required
Self Defense Lecture - Awareness & TacticsMon, Jul 27th · 6:00 PMThese classes are hosted on multiple dates but they are not continuations of the previous. You will receive all of the information in each individual class. You are welcome to attend as many as you like!
First class from 6-7pm is lecture style:
Come sit and learn in our lecture about how to develop and use awareness in everyday life! Learn how to stay present and aware in your surroundings, to keep yourself safe in urban life!
Second class from 7:30-8:30 involves physical movement:
Come be active in our self defense workshop! In this workshop, we'll go over how to keep your body in good condition while living a busy life, as well as basic self-defense for keeping yourself safe in emergency situations. Note: Please be dressed comfortably to stretch and exercise.
About the educator: Lionel Abdool (he/him) has been part of the Seattle kink community since 2018. He has worked on the education committees of leather orgs, like Seattle Leather Service Corps, to help organize and provide kink education to the community, as well as hosting private events in the Seattle area and kink education events at conventions. He is a certified 2nd Dan in Taekwondo and Hapkido and has been a martial arts instructor for 10 years working with people ages 3 to 60. Additionally he is a Certified Personal Trainer, self defense instructor, and group fitness instructor
Paid Event+3 more
Self Defense Class - Stretching & SituationsMon, Jul 27th · 7:30 PMThese classes are hosted on multiple dates but they are not continuations of the previous. You will receive all of the information in each individual class. You are welcome to attend as many as you like!
First class from 6-7pm is lecture style:
Come sit and learn in our lecture about how to develop and use awareness in everyday life! Learn how to stay present and aware in your surroundings, to keep yourself safe in urban life!
Second class from 7:30-8:30 involves physical movement:
Come be active in our self defense workshop! In this workshop, we'll go over how to keep your body in good condition while living a busy life, as well as basic self-defense for keeping yourself safe in emergency situations. Note: Please be dressed comfortably to stretch and exercise.
About the educator: Lionel Abdool (he/him) has been part of the Seattle kink community since 2018. He has worked on the education committees of leather orgs, like Seattle Leather Service Corps, to help organize and provide kink education to the community, as well as hosting private events in the Seattle area and kink education events at conventions. He is a certified 2nd Dan in Taekwondo and Hapkido and has been a martial arts instructor for 10 years working with people ages 3 to 60. Additionally he is a Certified Personal Trainer, self defense instructor, and group fitness instructor
Paid Event+3 more
Recurring Kink Support GroupThu, Jul 30th · 5:00 PMThis is an open peer support group. We use creative arts modalities (mainly poetry and drama) to explore and share emotions and experiences together. This is a support group made by and for the kink community.
Recurring Board Game MunchThu, Jul 30th · 7:00 PMCome play board games and make new kinky friends, every other Thursday! Bringing your own games and snacks is encouraged.
Puppy Play 101 - Intro to Puppy PlaySat, Aug 1st · 5:00 PMAttending 101 is a prerequisite for attending 102.
Puppy Play 101 - July 19 and August 1 from 5-7pm - Introduction to Puppy Play and Basic Obedience
Puppy Play 102 -August 1 from 7:30-9:30pm - Introduction to Electronic collar training and Off-leash Obedience
Are you a budding Handler, Top, pup, sub or Dominant who would like to develop or improve your Leash and Pet Handling skills?
While this class is centered around Puppy Play, we invite all pets, critters, subs, Doms and Handlers to attend as the concepts being taught are adaptable to all things Behavior.
In this class, we will cover the fundamentals of Operant Conditioning, marker training, and lay foundational work for Engagement rituals and Obedience. Student handlers will learn how to evaluate and establish baselines for each pup and to modify techniques and practices to preserve safety and health. Students will learn how to play on each other's strengths, mold weaknesses into strengths, all while building a deeper bond with each other.
What to bring:
* Dress comfortably - think gym and athletic wear. You should be wearing something you can comfortably squat, crawl, and move around
* Water and your own snacks/food
* slave or puppy hood - must be able to see and breathe comfortably
* Leash - if you have
* Collar - if you have
* Treats - be creative: m&ms, skittles, croutons, grapes, apple slices and tampons have been used. Don't ask. Treats should be something that the pup can easily chew and swallow, but please be mindful of choking risks.
* Puppy toys - tugs, balls, squeaky toys- if you like 'em and you have 'em, bring 'em.
We will have leashes on hand for anyone who needs to borrow them for class. If you're missing any gear, we can work around it.
About the Instructor:
The Samoan Goddess, Miss Jade, hails straight from the Islands of Samoa, is a Marine Corps Veteran and has worked in the Behavioral Psychology industry for over a decade as a Life Skills and Executive Functioning Coach for neurodivergent adults. She has owned her own Behavioral coaching practice for the last 8 years, teaching clients how to mitigate PTSD symptoms by creating better coping habits, while also contracting as a trainer to help other Therapy practices create and incorporate Animal-assisted therapies into their programs. She enjoys watching her students grow and gain self-confidence in their ability to problem-solve under pressure and on their feet.
Health & Safety:
You are responsible for your own health and safety. Pups should be able to do 10 squats comfortably and be able to move around on all fours for 3-5-min increments. If you have any health and mobility limitations that may affect our work together (high blood pressure, bad knees, etc.), please disclose them during class so we can adjust ourselves accordingly. You are your own best advocate, and we strongly encourage self-advocacy during class.
Paid Event
Puppy Play 102 - Intro to Electronic Collars and Off-leash ObedienceSat, Aug 1st · 7:30 PMAttending 101 is a prerequisite for attending 102.
Puppy Play 101 - July 19 and August 1 from 5-7pm - Introduction to Puppy Play and Basic Obedience
Puppy Play 102 -August 1 from 7:30-9:30pm - Introduction to Electronic collar training and Off-leash Obedience
Are you a budding Handler, Top, pup, sub or Dominant who would like to develop or improve your Leash and Pet Handling skills?
While this class is centered around Puppy Play, we invite all pets, critters, subs, Doms and Handlers to attend as the concepts being taught are adaptable to all things Behavior.
In this class, we will cover the fundamentals of Operant Conditioning, marker training, and lay foundational work for Engagement rituals and Obedience. Student handlers will learn how to evaluate and establish baselines for each pup and to modify techniques and practices to preserve safety and health. Students will learn how to play on each other's strengths, mold weaknesses into strengths, all while building a deeper bond with each other.
What to bring:
* Dress comfortably - think gym and athletic wear. You should be wearing something you can comfortably squat, crawl, and move around
* Water and your own snacks/food
* slave or puppy hood - must be able to see and breathe comfortably
* Leash - if you have
* Collar - if you have
* Treats - be creative: m&ms, skittles, croutons, grapes, apple slices and tampons have been used. Don't ask. Treats should be something that the pup can easily chew and swallow, but please be mindful of choking risks.
* Puppy toys - tugs, balls, squeaky toys- if you like 'em and you have 'em, bring 'em.
We will have leashes on hand for anyone who needs to borrow them for class. If you're missing any gear, we can work around it.
About the Instructor:
The Samoan Goddess, Miss Jade, hails straight from the Islands of Samoa, is a Marine Corps Veteran and has worked in the Behavioral Psychology industry for over a decade as a Life Skills and Executive Functioning Coach for neurodivergent adults. She has owned her own Behavioral coaching practice for the last 8 years, teaching clients how to mitigate PTSD symptoms by creating better coping habits, while also contracting as a trainer to help other Therapy practices create and incorporate Animal-assisted therapies into their programs. She enjoys watching her students grow and gain self-confidence in their ability to problem-solve under pressure and on their feet.
Health & Safety:
You are responsible for your own health and safety. Pups should be able to do 10 squats comfortably and be able to move around on all fours for 3-5-min increments. If you have any health and mobility limitations that may affect our work together (high blood pressure, bad knees, etc.), please disclose them during class so we can adjust ourselves accordingly. You are your own best advocate, and we strongly encourage self-advocacy during class.
Paid Event
TransMasc Support GroupSun, Aug 2nd · 2:00 PMThis support group is a confidential, affirming space for transmasculine people, including trans men and transmasc nonbinary folks. The group is centered on shared experiences, peer support, and honest conversation in an environment that prioritizes respect, safety, and consent.
Participants are welcome at any stage of their journey. Whether you’re seeking connection, space to process, or simply to listen, you are invited to show up in whatever way feels right. There is no pressure to speak, share, or educate. Participation is always optional.
This is a transmasc-only space. To protect the integrity of the group, allies and non-transmasculine individuals are asked to respect that this group is not intended for them.
Confidentiality is expected. What is shared in the group stays in the group. Harassment, discrimination, or intrusive questioning will not be tolerated.Masks Required
Self Defense Lecture - Awareness & TacticsMon, Aug 3rd · 6:00 PMThese classes are hosted on multiple dates but they are not continuations of the previous. You will receive all of the information in each individual class. You are welcome to attend as many as you like!
First class from 6-7pm is lecture style:
Come sit and learn in our lecture about how to develop and use awareness in everyday life! Learn how to stay present and aware in your surroundings, to keep yourself safe in urban life!
Second class from 7:30-8:30 involves physical movement:
Come be active in our self defense workshop! In this workshop, we'll go over how to keep your body in good condition while living a busy life, as well as basic self-defense for keeping yourself safe in emergency situations. Note: Please be dressed comfortably to stretch and exercise.
About the educator: Lionel Abdool (he/him) has been part of the Seattle kink community since 2018. He has worked on the education committees of leather orgs, like Seattle Leather Service Corps, to help organize and provide kink education to the community, as well as hosting private events in the Seattle area and kink education events at conventions. He is a certified 2nd Dan in Taekwondo and Hapkido and has been a martial arts instructor for 10 years working with people ages 3 to 60. Additionally he is a Certified Personal Trainer, self defense instructor, and group fitness instructor
Paid Event+2 more
Self Defense Class - Stretching & SituationsMon, Aug 3rd · 7:30 PMThese classes are hosted on multiple dates but they are not continuations of the previous. You will receive all of the information in each individual class. You are welcome to attend as many as you like!
First class from 6-7pm is lecture style:
Come sit and learn in our lecture about how to develop and use awareness in everyday life! Learn how to stay present and aware in your surroundings, to keep yourself safe in urban life!
Second class from 7:30-8:30 involves physical movement:
Come be active in our self defense workshop! In this workshop, we'll go over how to keep your body in good condition while living a busy life, as well as basic self-defense for keeping yourself safe in emergency situations. Note: Please be dressed comfortably to stretch and exercise.
About the educator: Lionel Abdool (he/him) has been part of the Seattle kink community since 2018. He has worked on the education committees of leather orgs, like Seattle Leather Service Corps, to help organize and provide kink education to the community, as well as hosting private events in the Seattle area and kink education events at conventions. He is a certified 2nd Dan in Taekwondo and Hapkido and has been a martial arts instructor for 10 years working with people ages 3 to 60. Additionally he is a Certified Personal Trainer, self defense instructor, and group fitness instructor
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Cracks in the Collar: Rupture & Repair in M/sTue, Aug 4th · 5:30 PMEven the most intentional relationships encounter conflict, misalignment, and harm. What matters is how you navigate it.
Drawing from research on rupture and repair, this class explores communication, feedback, emotional safety, and trauma within authority transfer dynamics. We’ll talk about how power, responsibility, and vulnerability intersect during conflict—and how to rebuild trust when things break. This is a grounded, practical conversation about resilience, accountability, and staying connected through difficulty.
Self Defense Lecture - Awareness & TacticsMon, Aug 10th · 6:00 PMThese classes are hosted on multiple dates but they are not continuations of the previous. You will receive all of the information in each individual class. You are welcome to attend as many as you like!
First class from 6-7pm is lecture style:
Come sit and learn in our lecture about how to develop and use awareness in everyday life! Learn how to stay present and aware in your surroundings, to keep yourself safe in urban life!
Second class from 7:30-8:30 involves physical movement:
Come be active in our self defense workshop! In this workshop, we'll go over how to keep your body in good condition while living a busy life, as well as basic self-defense for keeping yourself safe in emergency situations. Note: Please be dressed comfortably to stretch and exercise.
About the educator: Lionel Abdool (he/him) has been part of the Seattle kink community since 2018. He has worked on the education committees of leather orgs, like Seattle Leather Service Corps, to help organize and provide kink education to the community, as well as hosting private events in the Seattle area and kink education events at conventions. He is a certified 2nd Dan in Taekwondo and Hapkido and has been a martial arts instructor for 10 years working with people ages 3 to 60. Additionally he is a Certified Personal Trainer, self defense instructor, and group fitness instructor
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Self Defense Class - Stretching & SituationsMon, Aug 10th · 7:30 PMThese classes are hosted on multiple dates but they are not continuations of the previous. You will receive all of the information in each individual class. You are welcome to attend as many as you like!
First class from 6-7pm is lecture style:
Come sit and learn in our lecture about how to develop and use awareness in everyday life! Learn how to stay present and aware in your surroundings, to keep yourself safe in urban life!
Second class from 7:30-8:30 involves physical movement:
Come be active in our self defense workshop! In this workshop, we'll go over how to keep your body in good condition while living a busy life, as well as basic self-defense for keeping yourself safe in emergency situations. Note: Please be dressed comfortably to stretch and exercise.
About the educator: Lionel Abdool (he/him) has been part of the Seattle kink community since 2018. He has worked on the education committees of leather orgs, like Seattle Leather Service Corps, to help organize and provide kink education to the community, as well as hosting private events in the Seattle area and kink education events at conventions. He is a certified 2nd Dan in Taekwondo and Hapkido and has been a martial arts instructor for 10 years working with people ages 3 to 60. Additionally he is a Certified Personal Trainer, self defense instructor, and group fitness instructor
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Sub Club (social)Tue, Aug 11th · 7:00 PMSupport/discussion group for s-types
Recurring Kink Support GroupThu, Aug 13th · 5:00 PMThis is an open peer support group. We use creative arts modalities (mainly poetry and drama) to explore and share emotions and experiences together. This is a support group made by and for the kink community.
Recurring Board Game MunchThu, Aug 13th · 7:00 PMCome play board games and make new kinky friends, every other Thursday! Bringing your own games and snacks is encouraged.
Self Defense Lecture - Awareness & TacticsMon, Aug 17th · 6:00 PMThese classes are hosted on multiple dates but they are not continuations of the previous. You will receive all of the information in each individual class. You are welcome to attend as many as you like!
First class from 6-7pm is lecture style:
Come sit and learn in our lecture about how to develop and use awareness in everyday life! Learn how to stay present and aware in your surroundings, to keep yourself safe in urban life!
Second class from 7:30-8:30 involves physical movement:
Come be active in our self defense workshop! In this workshop, we'll go over how to keep your body in good condition while living a busy life, as well as basic self-defense for keeping yourself safe in emergency situations. Note: Please be dressed comfortably to stretch and exercise.
About the educator: Lionel Abdool (he/him) has been part of the Seattle kink community since 2018. He has worked on the education committees of leather orgs, like Seattle Leather Service Corps, to help organize and provide kink education to the community, as well as hosting private events in the Seattle area and kink education events at conventions. He is a certified 2nd Dan in Taekwondo and Hapkido and has been a martial arts instructor for 10 years working with people ages 3 to 60. Additionally he is a Certified Personal Trainer, self defense instructor, and group fitness instructor
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Self Defense Class - Stretching & SituationsMon, Aug 17th · 7:30 PMThese classes are hosted on multiple dates but they are not continuations of the previous. You will receive all of the information in each individual class. You are welcome to attend as many as you like!
First class from 6-7pm is lecture style:
Come sit and learn in our lecture about how to develop and use awareness in everyday life! Learn how to stay present and aware in your surroundings, to keep yourself safe in urban life!
Second class from 7:30-8:30 involves physical movement:
Come be active in our self defense workshop! In this workshop, we'll go over how to keep your body in good condition while living a busy life, as well as basic self-defense for keeping yourself safe in emergency situations. Note: Please be dressed comfortably to stretch and exercise.
About the educator: Lionel Abdool (he/him) has been part of the Seattle kink community since 2018. He has worked on the education committees of leather orgs, like Seattle Leather Service Corps, to help organize and provide kink education to the community, as well as hosting private events in the Seattle area and kink education events at conventions. He is a certified 2nd Dan in Taekwondo and Hapkido and has been a martial arts instructor for 10 years working with people ages 3 to 60. Additionally he is a Certified Personal Trainer, self defense instructor, and group fitness instructor
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SEA-PAH Members MoshSun, Aug 23rd · 2:00 PM**The Members Mosh is back in a brand new location!**
Come join us at the new Kink Center in Capitol Hill, a new venue and nonprofit organization founded in 2025 that is dedicated to maintaining community space for people to discover and learn kink. **Kink Center is entirely volunteer-driven and is allowing SEA-PAH to use their venue for free, but requests donations from the community so that it can continue to provide this much-needed, inclusive, kink-serving third space. Make a donation now at: ****<https://kinkcenter.org/needs>**\
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Unlike our regular public moshes our Members mosh is clothing optional and we'll have a couple different mat areas laid down for different play experiences.
Membership assistance will be available at the door though we strongly recommend joining SEA-PAH in advance right here on our website!
*Please note that the venue can only accommodate about 75 critters at a time. Tickets are not required but tickets/membership will be verified at the door. Please help streamline this process by purchasing a ticket*
Q: Can I bring a friend?
A: The members mosh is exactly what it says on the label. All attendees will need to be current, dues paying members of SEA-PAH.
Masks Required
Recurring Board Game MunchThu, Aug 27th · 7:00 PMCome play board games and make new kinky friends, every other Thursday! Bringing your own games and snacks is encouraged.
M/s and Play: Power in PracticeTue, Sep 1st · 5:30 PMThis class explores how psychological and physical play intersects with authority transfer, whether contained to scenes or woven into daily life. We’ll examine intention, negotiation, and the ways power and authority show up in both erotic and non-erotic contexts. Participants will be invited to think critically about why they play, how it connects to their dynamic, and how to align play with the values and structure of their relationship.
Cozy Kink Cinema – First Monday Movie NightMon, Sep 7th · 5:00 PMPull on your softest onesie, slip into your favorite pajamas, or keep it casual in your day-to-day comfies - you’re invited to settle in for a night of cult classics, queer-edged cinema, kinky storytelling, and creature features.\
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Sponsored by **Squidly Co. Fantasy Toys**, this **free** First Monday monthly gathering is all about low-pressure, high-comfort vibes. Whether you’re a film buff, a kink-curious newbie, or just looking for a plush spot to land on a Monday night, you belong here!
## 5 - 5:30 PM: Social & Snack Share
Bring your own snacks or something store bought to pass around the circle. Chips, cookies, fruit, finger foods - if it’s delicious and low-mess, it’s welcome! (Please keep the ingredients list on the packaging for common allergens.) We also encourage bringing pillows and blankets as most of us will likely be on the floor for a (PG and consensual) cuddle puddle. Couches will be reserved for those with mobility and accessibility needs.
## 5:30 PM: Movie Start
We’ll roll the film after a brief reminder about courtesy and consent while chatting and cuddling.
## Midway: Brief Intermission
Stretch, refill your water, hit the bathroom, or whisper theories with a new friend.
## After Credits: Brief Guided Discussion
There's no pressure to be a film scholar! Just a friendly chat about themes, tropes, turn-ons, and what made you squirm!
Future Film Suggestions: Got a movie you’ve been dying to watch with other kinksters? Bring your suggestions - we’ll build the next few months’ lineup together!
Dress Code: Whatever’s comfy and PG. Onesies, hoodies, pajama pants, fuzzy robes, casual street clothes, or that one outfit that feels like a hug. No fetish gear please.
MEAN: Masked Erotic Arts NightFri, Sep 11th · 7:00 PMWhat is MEAN?
Masked Erotic Arts Night is a showcase of erotic, kinky, sexy art made by artists still taking viral safety precautions. Anyone is welcome to come join in a celebration of these artists' work.
Mask required, kn95+.Masks Required
New Beginnings: Endings in M/sTue, Sep 22nd · 5:30 PMEndings are not failures of M/s, but inevitable transitions that, when approached with intention and care, can preserve dignity, honor the dynamic, and support meaningful personal evolution.
Not all relationships last forever, but all endings deserve intention.
This class explores the many ways M/s relationships can end: breakups, restructuring, loss, aging, and death. We’ll discuss both the emotional and practical realities of endings, including grief, identity shifts, and healing. Rather than framing endings as failure, we approach them as transitions that can be navigated with care, dignity, and growth. Participants will leave with tools and perspectives for moving forward - whatever that looks like.
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Events managed by Kink Center
Masked Kinky CraftingSun, Jun 21st · 2:00 PMKinky Crafting is a recurring crafting social hosted at the Kink Center venue in Capitol Hill, Seattle.
Kinky Crafting is a relaxed social space for working on projects while connecting with the kink community. Sewing, toy building, gear mending, and vanilla crafts are all welcome.
Kinky Crafting is open to all skill levels and provides a low-pressure setting for meeting people in the Seattle kink community.
This event is Mask Required (KN95 or better).Masks Required
Kinky CraftingWed, Jul 1st · 7:00 PMKinky Crafting is a recurring crafting social hosted at the Kink Center venue in Capitol Hill, Seattle.
Kinky Crafting is a relaxed social space for working on projects while connecting with the kink community. Sewing, toy building, gear mending, and vanilla crafts are all welcome.
Kinky Crafting is open to all skill levels and provides a low-pressure setting for meeting people in the Seattle kink community.
This event is Mask Optional
Masked MayhemFri, Jul 3rd · 8:00 PMDo you wear a mask, and look for mask-required events?
Join us every First Friday from 8pm - Midnight for a mask mandatory play party for those who wear High-Fidelity Masks in their day-to-day lives
This party aims to serve immunocompromised and high-risk community members by maintaining an ADA space with HEPA Air Purifiers and CO2 monitors. Allied folks who mask in their daily lives are very welcome here
If you do not wear a mask in your daily life, we ask that you not attend this event and check out our different Kink Center offerings this month!Masks RequiredPaid Event
These are recurring events run by Kink Center. View full calendar for all upcoming dates.
What Happens at Kink Center
Play Parties
Regular BDSM play parties including Karaoke & Play, Game & Play Party, Feral events, and masked play gatherings that create intimate spaces for kinky connection and exploration.
Social Gatherings
Community socials focused on rope bondage, board games, crafting, and themed meetups like Kinky Kandi & Crafts and Rope Socials—spaces to make friends and explore interests.
Classes & Skill-Sharing
Educational sessions covering topics like Queer Peer Rope Skillshare, DJ Basics, and sensual touch workshops to build knowledge and confidence.
Support Groups
Recurring community spaces including TransMasc Support Group and Kink Support Group—confidential, affirming spaces for peer support and creative connection.
Creative & Arts Events
Kinky Crafting sessions, Live Nude Figure Drawing, and masked creative workshops that blend artistic expression with kink community building.
Mask-Required Events
Designated mask-required gatherings like Masked Mayhem and masked DJ nights prioritize immunocompromised community members with HEPA air purifiers and CO2 monitoring.