Ray & Lexi

Upcoming Events

Actualizing M/s: From Idea to PracticeTue, Jul 7th · 5:30 PMThis class focuses on what M/s actually looks like in real-world practice. Together, we’ll unpack common stereotypes, challenge prescriptive dynamics, and explore how authority transfer functions in everyday life. From logistics to emotional realities, we’ll examine how people build sustainable, intentional relationships that don’t rely on “one true way” thinking. Participants will leave with a clearer sense of how to translate desire into structure, and philosophy into lived experience

Cracks in the Collar: Rupture & Repair in M/sTue, Aug 4th · 5:30 PMEven the most intentional relationships encounter conflict, misalignment, and harm. What matters is how you navigate it. Drawing from research on rupture and repair, this class explores communication, feedback, emotional safety, and trauma within authority transfer dynamics. We’ll talk about how power, responsibility, and vulnerability intersect during conflict—and how to rebuild trust when things break. This is a grounded, practical conversation about resilience, accountability, and staying connected through difficulty.

M/s and Play: Power in PracticeTue, Sep 1st · 5:30 PMThis class explores how psychological and physical play intersects with authority transfer, whether contained to scenes or woven into daily life. We’ll examine intention, negotiation, and the ways power and authority show up in both erotic and non-erotic contexts. Participants will be invited to think critically about why they play, how it connects to their dynamic, and how to align play with the values and structure of their relationship.

New Beginnings: Endings in M/sTue, Sep 22nd · 5:30 PMEndings are not failures of M/s, but inevitable transitions that, when approached with intention and care, can preserve dignity, honor the dynamic, and support meaningful personal evolution. Not all relationships last forever, but all endings deserve intention. This class explores the many ways M/s relationships can end: breakups, restructuring, loss, aging, and death. We’ll discuss both the emotional and practical realities of endings, including grief, identity shifts, and healing. Rather than framing endings as failure, we approach them as transitions that can be navigated with care, dignity, and growth. Participants will leave with tools and perspectives for moving forward - whatever that looks like.